Friday, August 15, 2014

We have been "Empressed"

The Fairmont Empress is a grand hotel with many "Empressive" amenities...
We walked from our home not too far from the hotel on a sunny warm summer's eve.
Our 40th wedding anniversary was last month and we were given a gift voucher for The Bengal Room.
Thank you to our son and daughter in law for our lovely evening and classic Bengal Room Curry Buffet.


Looking out the window towards the legislature...


a celebratory cocktail


Edwardian decor...
very much a hunting vibe going on here!


The Bengal Room is famous for their curry.


It was delicious!


Dessert rice pudding and a chai creme brulee...

After our dinner we walked through the lobby to hail a cab.


Lovely shops...with high end clobber!


I'll be wearing my scarf tied over my coat this way when the weather cools...
Oh and those blue bags so tempting...


How about a ruby ring?
40th after all is "ruby celebration."


How about a sapphire necklace?


The tea shop beckons...


Pretty plates for an afternoon tea party.


How about a classic afternoon tea at The Empress...
when one is in Victoria this is a must.


A high calorie indulgence...
worth it once in awhile.


Hope you have a lovely weekend!


Wednesday, August 13, 2014

and then the rain came...

It's raining today and it has was coming down steadily throughout the night.
Our forests and gardens are parched so it has come at a good time...
perhaps some of the forest fires will be extinguished and give the overworked fire fighters a well earned break.


These are onion blooms.
I planted them a few years ago and they reward me every year with a lovely show.
They have a slight onion-y scent but it is not so overpowering that you are brought to tears.
I  bring them indoors and pop them in a vase.


The fuchsia shade is vibrant and looks so pretty with the soft white buds.


Colour has a big impact on how I feel.
  I notice when the skies are grey and the rains come that my outlook and mood is affected. 

When the gloomy days arrive that I need to be proactive and focus on things that cheer my spirit.

I've been thinking about debilitating depression since hearing of the tragic death of Robin Williams.
He was such an extremely funny and gifted actor who gave so much to us over his career.
Just how low and distraught he must have been is difficult for me to imagine.
I hope that his family will come to understand and accept his demise.

I wonder how depression starts...
Is it a series of events that pile up to overwhelm one's spirit or is it a chemical imbalance in the body?
Is it too much "living in one's head" or lack of exercise or isolation?
Or is it a combination of all of the above?
If we are aware of our tendency to go to the dark side 
I wonder if we can use strategies to keep that Black Dog away...




~ Into each life a little rain must fall. ~


We all need tools and strategies to cope with the bumps on the road of life.

Given that I am not clinically depressed nor have I ever experienced a serious bout with depression 
I really have no idea how a severly depressed individual struggles to maintain a balanced equilibrium.
I know friends and a few close family members who are on medication for depression.

Finding the right medication can be tricky and it takes several weeks for the drugs to take effect.
It is a rocky road to wellness.


On a cold grey day I like to brew a pot of tea...

It is not a cure all but the delicate aroma of a good blend does have a soothing power.
If I need a cheering up I use a particularly lovely china cup and saucer.

Comfort is important so I opt for a warm cozy cashmere sweater and some woolly socks and slippers.
If the room is chilled I climb under a warm blanket or duvet.

Lighting a scented candle helps elevate my mood.

If I have a good book on the go I might pick it up and read a few chapters...
 thumbing through a stack of magazines
or watching a favourite movie.

I might pick up the phone and call a friend to chat.

Going out for a walk or trying out a new recipe work wonders.
Tackling a messy cupboard ~ reorganizing and tidying. 
Volunteering to help others less fortunate is a tonic.

What do you do when you feel sad?


Why is Joy so hard for some to find?

Is there something that we as a society can do to prevent future suicides or help alleviate depression?
Accepting that mental illness is an illness on it's own, not unlike the flu or diabetes might be a start.

In the meantime my thoughts and condolences go out to Robin William's family...



"That's the thing about depression: A human being can survive almost anything, as long as she sees the end in sight. But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end. The fog is like a cage without a key."

~ Elizabeth Wurtzel ~



If you need help seek it, if you notice someone else needs help offer it, 
let's never give up on ourselves or those we hold dear to our hearts.

Hostess

Monday, August 11, 2014

Limelight Hydrangeas...and my OOTD

Limelight hydrangeas are in full bloom and are looking radiant...
our Humble Bungalow has 4 growing in the front yard and 2 in the back garden.



I went a bit overboard when I first discovered them a few years ago and just HAD to buy the last remaining plants in stock at the nursery!


They make a lovely statement with their large floppy moppy heads...
and when they get wet they bow their heads low to the ground.
That's when I took my handy secateurs outside and cut a few blooms before they got muddy in the soil.


With such pretty flowers one needn't use a fussy vase...
a simple white ironstone jug is more than adequate.


A reader recently asked if I had any of my paintings on display in our Humble Bungalow...
If you look at the top left of this image you can see one sitting on the plate rail above our arts and crafts trestle table in the kitchen.


They even look good outside on the deck...

Lime has snuck into my wardrobe too and my OOTD goes with the theme of this post.


Tribal ribbon top.




I wore this top with a mocha coloured skirt and some sandals...
(no picture was taken as I was late and running out the door to meet a friend)
Punctuality is very high on my priority list.

I have joined Instagram and hope that you might like to follow me at HostessofTheHumbleBungalow...
I will try to figure out how to link it on my sidebar.
I still haven't linked my Pinterest on the blog and am feeling very much like I could use a techy on staff here.

In the meantime I will plod along and hope to catch up...


Chester has been nibbling the planter on the deck...


Sleep will not come easy tonight as I went out for dinner with a few gals I knew from school and we chatted for three hours over dinner and after a couple of glasses of wine I was sipping several cups of tea, 
(which were not decaf)
so I know that I am in for an evening of tossing and turning in bed.
 I decided to work on this blog post instead of disturbing Mr. HB who has to get up early in the morning and go off to work.


Two new grand babies have been born into our circle of friends 
They are first time grand mothers so it is a joyful event.
One of the things on my do list this week will be finding gifts for these two boys.


"For happiness one needs security, but joy can spring like a flower even from the cliffs of despair."

~ Anne Morrow Lindbergh ~


 Thank you for stopping by and spending a few minutes here in The Humble Bungalow.
Take care as you go about your business this week.

Hostess
XO


Saturday, August 9, 2014

Weight Loss Secrets...what I learned on my personal WW journey.

Several readers have emailed me and asked for specifics about my weight loss journey, asked for tips and any "weight loss secrets" that I could share with you.

Weight Loss Secrets are a hot topic!
 Ads promoting these "secrets" and food advice and diet regimes are popping up all over the web.

In the past and out of desperation I clicked on many of these links and read with anticipation eager to find that miracle diet as I knew it HAD to be out there somewhere...if only I kept looking.

Let me state first off that I was a staggering 160 pounds...and at 5 foot 1 inch that put me in the obese category.
I felt immense shame and my body image was very low...I wore tent shaped clothes basically, stylish tents but voluminous pieces that were meant to hide my bulk...which they didn't.
I was trying to pretend that they did...
It's sad but true how we choose denial in these situations.

My blood pressure was through the roof and I was put on high blood pressure meds and my doctor insisted that I lose at least 10 pounds.
Ten pounds should not be an insurmountable task but I could not shed these on my own even after trying several diets and reading numerous books on the subject.


Fruits in their natural state are free of WW points so they make a great choice for a snack between meals.


But I still clung to the hope of that miracle food or diet that I thought I could quickly and easily shed the weight, after all 10 pounds is not much.
I actually believed in my heart that if I followed some of the quirky advice out there that I would be able to slim down without putting much effort into it.
I admit it now, I was just plain lazy.
I'd rather sit around and read than hit the pavement and walk or go to the gym.

Hah what a joke...and the joke was on me.
I was under the wrong impression and found out very quickly that what I needed was a simple basic regime and some healthier life style changes if I was to be successful.

There are No Weight Loss "Secrets"... 
it's mere science and common sense.

I needed help and some educational tools and support so I went to WW online.
They had so many published "success stories"  that I figured if these average women could do it I could too.

I knew that I needed to be accountable and online would not be the best route for me so I joined the local chapter and have never looked back.


Low point breakfast Little Big Bread toasted with a boiled egg for protein.
I find protein stays with me and helps me feel satisfied longer.

I had to start some physical exercise and walking was the logical choice for me.
It is free and I can do it when it fits into my schedule.
As we live so close to the beautiful seafront and an area filled with lovely homes and gardens to gaze upon I felt distracted by the actual walking and felt more like I was enjoying the scenery.
Time passed quickly and soon I was able to increase the length of my walks.
I started out small...20 minutes everyday.
Now I aim for at least 45-50 each day with one or two 10K walks a week with a friend.

It has become a healthy habit and one that I look forward to each day.
It is a gift to me.
As if I am saying I am worth it...

I no longer need the high blood pressure medication and feel so much stronger.


If I can lose 30 pounds so can you.
It took me almost a year but in that year I learned what I should eat and how movement could change my shape and improve my muscle tone and bone health.

It was hard to stick with it when I saw friends eating battered fish and chips and munching on chocolates but I told myself that when I got to my goal weight I would be able to enjoy these foods sparingly...which I do now.


After my walks I often sit down to a small snack with my cup of tea.
I have been savouring the Food Should Taste Good multi grain cracker chips with a tablespoon of Hummus.

Wearing figure flattering clothes that are not "tent like" and meant to camouflage has been an unexpected bonus.
My first pair of white jeans in years has filled me with a new found confidence and I actually think my self esteem has improved.

The basic minimal wardrobe that I have put together almost exclusively through charity and thrift shops after consigning all my "fat clothes" has been quite a lot of fun too...
less expensive than buying all new and fun to find.

~ ~ ~

I wrote this post in response to several readers who are struggling with their weight loss journey.
I hope that I have answered all your questions and if I have not please leave me a comment and I will answer.

Weight Watchers worked for me and if you need a sensible way to lose weight I encourage you to enroll in the program.

If I am able to influence one of you to make a change and turn your life around it will be worth it.

Have a fabulous weekend!


Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Beach walking...weekend highlights.

Last weekend we motored over to South Pender Island.
The weather was positively gorgeous and we were snug and cozy nestled in our bunks for several nights of sweet slumber, gently lulled by the action of the tide.


The sunsets were amazing...


I finished The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry which I really enjoyed and have started reading Meg Wolitzer's new novel, The Interestings.
I'm impressed by her writing style and must remember to read some of her previous novels.


We savoured some succulent oysters in a mignonette sauce on the outdoor patio.
The Pender Island vineyard Sea Star Ortega was the perfect pairing...
so good in fact, that we purchased a few bottles to take home.


Keeping cool was a challenge...
the daily dips in the pool were essential.


Canada Geese and their goslings swam to and fro...from boat to boat hoping for a handout.


This cannon sits near the Canadian Customs dock...
I wonder if it a warning.


One of the most relaxing things to do when one gets off the boat is to saunter leisurely on a beach...
beach combing with hopes of finding some smooth sea glass or a shell.
Looking at Mother Nature's handiwork never gets boring...


The beach is made up mostly of clam shells...generally referred to as a midden.

The First Nations people would have eaten the clams as they were plentiful and easy to harvest.
The ocean would have provided a rich diet of seafood and the many small protected harbours would have been easy to reach by canoe for the hunter gatherers.

Archaeological digs are quite common on the Gulf Islands.
Arrowheads can still be found if one knows where to look.



The local Arbutus trees have a red bark that peels away like paper revealing a limey green wood underneath.


Seaweed and barnacles


The ocean is cold so I rarely swim in the sea.
There were people swimming and I am sure it would have been refreshing given the heat.






One big Barnacle!


Put to use as a place to store change...
toonies for the marina showers.

Hope you've enjoyed this wee peek into our latest boating adventure.
It's back to work for Mr. HB and I'll be catching up on the domestics and gardening 
here at The Humble Bungalow.